True Heart matters enough and needs no approval.
Chasing after, hiding under, or arguing over, all stem from doubting the existence of an agreement. It is ultimately self doubt paired with anger that is being used to force others into verifying and approving your right - the very rights that are already yours. There is a self value missing here - a foundation that you do not trust in yourself, do not trust the deep knowing of your heart.
The need for approval, in a behavioral patterns, is driven by survival instincts arising from your second, or we call it sacral chakra, together with your adrenals secreting fear and the kidneys secreting fear and the pancreas secreting betrayal. Would you have known the science behind all this chasing after, hiding under & arguing about?
Reconnect your heart with your gut to trust the solutions that are already yours💕